A lot of guys have trouble seducing women. In fact, some guys are so terrible at it that it results in being a turn off for the women! I have had conversations with women about some of the stuff guys pull out when they’re trying to get a woman into bed, and it’s not good!

One of the easiest and most effective ways to seduce women is with whispering. And I’m not talking about whispering in her ear “oh man I’m going to screw your brains out when I get home”! The thing is, you can make almost anything sound sexy when you whisper it - and women love it!

So, you need to whisper something to her that will get her mind racing. It’s not what you say to her, but what you don’t say. A bad example would be:

“I can’t wait to see you naked on my bed”

A much better example would be:

“I can’t wait til we’re alone together later”

When you whisper the second example in her ear, her mind starts racing and getting turned on about what might possibly happen when you finally get her alone. Women prefer to imagine to get turned on rather than look. For example, men might watch a porn video when masturbating while a woman would rather image a guy having sex with her.

So how do you work out what is a good thing to whisper in a womans ear to try and seduce her? Well, generally men try and rush the whole process of having sex. Women hate that. As most of you probably already know, women like to have plenty of foreplay before getting down to business. So when you whisper in her ear keep in mind that there is no such thing as trying to seduce her quickly.

So in order to seduce the woman you need to make her feel sexy, important, wanted, intelligent and feminine. So think about that when you’re deciding what to whisper in her ear. Good luck on your next date

-Matt