I have found through conversations with my friends and other guys that I come across that 90% of men have absolutely no idea how to work a first date.

First of all, I think there are 2 types of first dates from a guys perspective. The first is he’s looking for a relationship. The second he’s looking for sex. It’s really that simple. So these 5 first date tips can be used no matter what you’re looking for from the girl.

My First Date Tips:

1. Make her feel like a queen.
   Girls don’t expect much from guys. This is good for us becuase even the slightest amount of attention scores big points. I don’t mean you need to take her to the date in a horse and carriage or limo, it’s the small things like telling her she looks stunning.
2. Go Somewhere That Requires Conversation.
   Dinner and a movie is a shitty idea for a date. You spend 2-3 hours of it sitting their in silence. Mix it up a bit, go out for dinner then to a nice lounge bar for example. There’s a million things you can do, be creative.
3. Don’t Be a Tight Ass!
   Really, this shouldn’t have to even be mentioned but I hear stories about it over and over again. Oh yeah, and McDonalds is not a good place to go!
4. Make Her Feel Comfortable.
   You might be shitting yourself, but do your best to put her at ease. Meeting new guys over the internet is pretty scary for most girls. The more comfortable she feels the better the date will go
5. Humor Is The Key.
   Humor gets your EVERYWHERE with women. I don’t care what anyone says, you will score big points with the right jokes at the right time. Notice I said “right jokes at the right time”? Don’t go overboard and don’t tell lame ass jokes.

Well, those are 5 of my top tips for getting what you want out of your first date. I could write a 10,000 word post full of first date tips…but I can’t be assed, and you need to use your own initiative here. It’s important to just be yourself and go with the flow.