I know a lot of guys who have a thing for Japanese women. One of them asked me recently, how do I meet Japanese women online…where do I go? That got me thinking, I have never met a Japanese girl on the web before. I wanted to have a shot at it, since I actually really like Japan and think their women are pretty hot too

So here’s what I did:

1. You need to get a profile up on some good dating sites that are likely to have a lot of Japanese members. If you’re a tight ass like me you’re going to want to start with the sites that let you register free and check things out. Signup free at True Asian, Singlesnet, American Singles and BBW Personals (you never know). I am already a member of these sites.
2. Start searching for Japanese women. Most search functions on these sites will allow you to search by race. This will narrow it down to Asians usually. Bit I wanted Japanese women in particular so I just read their profiles to get that info.
3. Now it’s time for the approach. I have selected 7 girls which I was pretty keen on. All of them were decent looking and didn’t sound like weirdos in their profiles. They had all moved here from Japan, some only this year and some 20 years ago. They all lived within driving distance from my place, so if they were keen to meetup I was up for it.
4. I chose a soft approach for Japanese girls (becuase of their culture). I shot them each a short email just saying I was looking for someone to chat to online at night times. Said I wasn’t looking for anything, just chat.
5. OK, no I wait. Waited 24 hours and 4 out of 7 had replied to my email with either the dating sites chat room info in there or an instant messaging program I could hit them up on. So off I went, hit them all up for a chat…
6. I know a lot of Asian girls are very shy and wouldn’t be up for a meetup for a while, so I just chatted to these 4 Japanese girls every night for about a week or so. There was one who seemed to be a little keener that the other 3, so I thought I’d focus on her. She was actually really easy to talk to and seemed to keen on me so I hit her up for a phone call (gotta take the phone call step before a meetup, and it’s also good to get to know the girl a bit more on the phone to make the meeting easier).
7. Phone call went well, and I decided I’d hit her up for an easy night in a lounge bar which is a 10min drive from my place. Wham bam thank you, that was it. She agreed so we made a time.
8. That’s all you get…use your imagination…

So that was easier than I thought, and there were more Japanese women looking for guys than I thought. I expected this to be a bit of a crusade, but it was a walk in the park.

A few tips…

1. Don’t mention in your profile anything about looking for Japanese women.
2. Don’t be to full-on…those who wait will be rewarded
3. Do a bit of research about Japan, that will give you something to talk about and it will make you look more cultured.

So there you have it. Get started by registering at these free sites…True Asian, Singlesnet, American Singles and BBW Personals (that one is optional!).